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Saturday, April 25, 2009

No action south of the boarder...

Dear Chick,

My wife very rarely goes down on me anymore. When we were dating it was a regular occurrence but we've been married for a while now and the oral sex has disappeared.

Missing the mouth


Dear Missing the mouth,

Sex is wonderful isn't it?! And what is the next best thing to sex?! ORAL sex of course!!!! Now, the first thing that popped into my head was 'are YOU still giving oral sex to HER?' - If you are then 'absolutely' you should expect the same courtesy in return. If you are not - well, buck up mister - you reap what you sew. When sexual expectations are not aligned it can be the cause of a lot of problems. Now, the BEST thing a guy can do when he desires oral sex is to make that APPEALING. Give it a man-scaping job - no one likes to floss with pubes! Don't just assume that a shower will do the job - give that thing a good scrubbing right before getting intimate - if it's tasty she just may want to try it ;o) Start off by giving her a tongue tickle first then tell her how CRAZY she makes you when she tastes you too.. It's always best to encourage during a 'positive moment' then to have to resort to a 'discussion' about 'what's wrong with your sex life' - the latter, sometimes is necessary - but when it comes to such an intimate topic - try to lead the way by setting a positive example for what you need an want. Give before you expect to receive - a good motto to live by, both in and out of the bedroom ;o)

Here's hoping you're slobbered on soon!!

Cheers - Chick!